Honoring Your Crown Before Anyone Else Can
There's a revolution happening in the spirits of women who've finally understood that the princess treatment isn't something to beg for – it's something we give ourselves first. I've watched too many queens dim their light waiting for someone else to recognize their shine, when the power was in their hands all along…Let me break this down for you.
Morning Rituals: The Foundation of Self-Royalty
Your day begins the moment consciousness kisses your eyelids. This is where the magic starts, where you set the intention that carries you.
When I transformed my mornings, I transformed my life. My bedroom became my sanctuary – not just clean, but intentional. Fresh sheets changed weekly. Scents that lift my spirit. A room that whispers "you deserve beauty" before anyone else gets a chance to tell me otherwise.
Those plush slippers waiting by your bed? That's you telling yourself "your comfort matters." The water on your nightstand? That's you saying "your body's needs come first." These aren't luxuries – they're declarations.
The Body Temple: Maintenance of Magnificence
Listen, when I started treating my body like the sacred vessel it is, the world responded differently. Working out isn't punishment – it's communion with the only home your soul will ever have in this lifetime.
Five days a week, I move this body with intention. Some days it's gentle, some days it burns, but it's always with gratitude. Each drop of sweat is an offering to myself, a promise that I'm worth the effort.
Those vitamins you're taking? That lemon water blessing your system first thing? That's not just health – that's self-respect in tangible form. You're telling your body, "I see what you need, and I'm showing up for you."
Presentation: The Armor of Queens
Baby, when I tell you getting dressed every day shifted something in my spirit – believe me. Even with nowhere to go, I put myself together. Not for the random person I might encounter, but for the woman I see in the mirror.
Your manicured nails aren't frivolity – they're evidence of attention to detail. Your skincare routine isn't vanity – it's consistency and commitment to yourself. That signature scent? It's not for them – it's the aromatic reminder of your presence, even to yourself.
The Ripple Effect: How Self-Honor Attracts Its Match
What fascinates me most is how the universe mirrors our self-treatment back to us. I lived both realities – the woman who accepted crumbs and the woman who feeds herself the whole feast.
When I began treating myself like royalty, suddenly doors opened. People responded differently. Opportunities emerged. Not because I changed for others, but because I changed what I permitted.
The man who once would have been given access to my kingdom without proving himself worthy now stands at the gate, demonstrating his value. The friend who drained my energy without reciprocity now finds boundaries where once there were none.
Your Turn to Reign
I want you to ask yourself tonight: If I were my own most precious beloved, how would I treat myself tomorrow morning? What would I no longer tolerate? What would I begin to expect?
Write it down. Make it real. Then wake up and give yourself the princess treatment – not because you're entitled, but because you're worthy.
The crown was always yours. It's time you wore it.
